Speaking & Workshops

Allowing practice
rest is here

Compulsion isn’t a failure of will. It’s a nervous system with nowhere to rest.

Paul du Buf brings three decades of addiction nursing and a three-minute practice that a room can learn in one sitting — for festivals, conferences and treatment organisations.

Paul du Buf

Paul du Buf · ERA-Institute

Three minutes

Rather than read about it, do it

The practice is called ERA — Exhale, Rest, Allow. It is built on the natural pause at the end of the out-breath. Nothing is forced and nothing is held. What is new is meeting that pause awake, rather than reaching for the usual exits.

ERA, guided — three minutes
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What I bring to a programme

Three formats, one argument

The same material, pitched to the room. Each can be adapted in length; the workshop is the one people talk about afterwards, and the keynote is the one that changes how an organisation sees itself.

Experiential workshop

The Rest Underneath the Craving

75–90 minutes · up to 40 people · no equipment

We treat compulsion as a personal failing. It is not. It is the nervous system doing the only thing it knows to escape what it cannot yet bear, and every strategy it reaches for costs the same thing — our presence.

  • Guided ERA rounds, in the body rather than in theory
  • Paired enquiry: locating your own restraint
  • Participants leave with a three-minute practice usable anywhere, including mid-craving
Keynote or talk

The Organisation as a Nervous System

30–45 minutes · conferences and in-house

Trauma-informed training gives people a vocabulary and changes very little, because the constraint is not knowledge. It is that the organisation’s own regulation strategies are themselves compulsive: urgency, control, the reflex to fix.

  • Why the relapse ceiling has not moved in twenty-five years
  • What trauma-integrated culture asks of a system, not just its staff
  • The evidence base, including its honest limitations
Panel

The organisational lens

15 minutes plus discussion

On a panel of clinicians I bring the organisational argument; among practitioners and teachers I bring the clinical rigour and the trial data. Either way, the perspective the rest of the panel is not carrying.

  • Addiction, trauma and contemplative practice where they actually meet
  • What three decades on the work floor teaches that the literature does not

A note on safety. The practice is trauma-safe by design. Nothing is held and no breath is ever retained; the pause is visited, not produced. Anyone who finds it activating simply rides the exhale to its end, and the session works either way. Eyes open is always explicitly fine.

About

Founded on the work floor, not the whiteboard

Paul du Buf is the founder of ERA-Institute, which helps organisations build trauma-integrated cultures. He spent three decades as a nurse in addiction services and is the author of Shadow Dancing. He developed the ERA practice and the eight-week Still·point programme, working where addiction, trauma and contemplative practice meet.

“Ask people with long-term recovery what changed, and versions of the same sentence keep returning: I stopped fighting.”

Credentials
BSN, RN, NMP, CGNC
Certified Global Nurse Consultant,
International Council of Nurses

Written
Shadow Dancing: Embodied Recovery from Trauma and Addiction

Languages
English · Dutch

Based
Between Europe and Canada

Invitations

Bringing this to your programme

Tell me the room, the length you have and the audience, and I will send a full proposal. I am glad to hear that it is not a fit — a quick no is more useful to both of us than silence.

Send a speaking enquiry

Or write directly to paul@era-institute.com